Not too long ago I was desperately looking for ways to end my premature ejaculation (PE) embarrassment… The search was very long…
TEN plus solid years long…
I devoured books, articles to learn the (squeeze) techniques, took pills… only to eventually arrive back at square one.
After all my years of suffering and shame, I’ve finally found a way to make it work.
Today I’m going to give you my five secrets to manage my PE in a practical, non-bookish way…
Maybe this one article isn’t going to make you a sex-god… but it’s going to give you greater self-confidence in bed… and put you in the right direction.
So let’s begin:
1) Destroy the “PE Demon” Before It Grows Bigger
I know I’ve said it many times, PE is a simpler problem. But have you ever thought what’s fueling this demon to catastrophic sizes?
It sparks a chain-reaction which eats up your self-confidence, erection, manhood, happiness, virility, health, work… basically your life.
So kill it before it grows further.
And How to Kill PE?
First, you’ve to recruit an army.
Sure you can deadlift 3,000 pounds and make Arnold Schwarzenegger look like a puny kid… but a simple fact is you can’t fight alone.
If you’re married or in a relationship – there’s no better General than your spouse or partner.
If you’re single – double your dating or find someone supportive (Now, don’t ask me how… there’re plenty of programs for that).
Believe it or not, this is a devastatingly-effective strategy.
While many people foolishly assume things will improve with time or experience. Truth is nothing happens unless you do something about it.
You can either “hope-and-pray” or take this first solid step to a solid sex-life i.e. improve your relationship…
2) The Blame-Game Isn’t Going To Help You
When you point one finger towards someone else you point 3 fingers back to you…
I’ve seen a lot of people coming up with lame excuses… PE is because of my partner, her tighter vagina, her sexiness, my genes, my penis… blah blah blah…
Frankly, the problem is not “out there”… but it’s NOT even your mistake! I can see you shaking your head in disbelief but see my point…
… you were trained in Algebra or driving a car… but you were NEVER EVER trained in controlling your instincts or (ejaculation) reflexes.
But that doesn’t mean you can’t do it… you just need the right techniques (we’ll discover them soon).
3) Discover Your Sexual Style
To make a girl scream with pleasure you do NOT have to fuck her for an hour – without any breaks or breaths.
Sure, you can use delay sprays… but it’s dead as wood.
Women want a cyclical pattern of sex. It involves ups & downs, sometimes fast exertions, then deep grinding & other times pure teasing.
Remember, monotonous pumping is a sin. And this is a blessing in disguise for you! And most women are pretty good at adapting to a guy’s style.
4) Feed The PE-Demon Through A “Performance Test”
Here’s my bold claim: If you ever feel like sex is becoming a performance test – then simply AVOID it.
Truth is women, like you & me, are trying to have fun. It’s about enjoying, sharing, loving & having orgasms.
So reframe sex as a WIN-WIN GAME.• See my First Step to lasting Longer for more…
5) Pills Don’t Solve Your Relationship Issues.
Everytime you pop a pill, you’re losing an opportunity to learn a skill or something about your partner… They can crack the code of Nitric-Oxide (for erections)… but there’s no pill for an Art. (Consult your doctor before you stop any pill).Alright now you understand 5 basic rules of the game, it’s time to play & win it. And right now – you need a coach who’s been there and done that…
You can explore my 3 Steps to Lasting Longer program… and see how I manage PE everyday to last 10, 20, even up to 30 minutes longer in bed…